Ezekiel 37:1-10 is a great message of hope. It's an affirmation that all things are possible for God and that our "good-byes" won't be forever. It's an Easter message that we need to hear when we're watching a loved one die... or leaving a friend for what we know will be the last time. For all of us who come face-to-face with death, separation, or emptiness too deep to measure... clinging to the hope that dry bones live... is the only hope we have!
Israel was destroyed in 597BC. The temple was plundered and thousands of Jews were taken into captivity. It was a hopeless situation, but according to Ezekiel, "the hand of the Lord" set him in the middle of a valley of dry bones. The bones were really dry and the Lord asked him if they could live. "Can these dry bones live?" he asked. I don't know, Ezekiel answered, and God told him to "prophecy" to the bones, which he did. Then "there was a rattling sound" of bones coming together. Ezekiel looked and the bones took on flesh, and when he spoke again, the breath of God entered them... and they came to life and stood on their feet as a vast army! O my, what a vision! For those of us who have walked in a valley full of dry bones, what a hope! When we held my brother's funeral in Anniston, Alabama, there was some concern that Randy didn't look like himself... but the bigger question was this: CAN HIS DRY BONES LIVE? In God's hands, can Randall Lee Shedenhelm live? This is always the question. When they took my brother, Larry, off of life-support, a deep sorrow filled the air and dry bones were all around us. Was this the end... or was it a new beginning in which Larry would be free of both cancer and death?
Would his dry bones live? When we walk through the graveyards that dot our lives; when someone abandons us; when we see our friends die; when we're told that we have just a few months to live... we hear God whisper, "CAN THESE DRY BONES LIVE?" Well...can they? When my brother, Randy, died in '94, we had already cried most of our tears... as we watched him get thinner and weaker. Hospice watched over him and his partner was with him as he faded away. His boys stood by him, and my brother, Larry, and I did the same, but it was alway clear that there was no hope. Randy was in a valley of dry bones... but he told me that he wasn't afraid to die because he was in God's hands. Randy believed that dry bones live and this is the truth we claimed for him at his funeral. Larry was the middle brother between Randy and me, and I loved him dearly... but in the course of time, Leukemia had it's way with him. I was blessed to be with his family as he was dying and we could all see that dry bones were all around. We could see them. Larry could see them too. So we listened to "Me and Bobbi McGee" one last time and trusted that dry bones live because nothing is to hard for God.
On Easter morning, at least one woman (the gospel accounts differ a bit) made her way to a graveyard to show her love for a man who had been crucified. She wanted to pay her respects and take care of his body. That would've been good enough for her. The women expected to prepare a dead body... and they were alarmed when they couldn't find it. They were sure that his body must have been taken because dry bones don't move on their own! Then, Mary heard his voice, "Mary, don't cling to me, but go and tell the others that I am alive. Tell them, Mary, that dry bones live!" When asked if dry bones live, Ezekiel was wisely left the matter in God's hands, but after Easter, we can lift up voices and shout, Of course they can and indeed they will. We will claim it as we live and we will go to our graves believing it! It is the greatest promise that has ever been made and we will never let go of it! My friend, Will, died several years ago and the last words he said to me were, "We will meet again." He said these words matter-of-factly, as if everyone should know that dry bones live. I have no doubts about it myself and I look forward to seeing Will and to embracing Larry and Randy! Dry bones live. Go and tell them. Tell them that it's true and that it makes all the difference in the world.
Biblical and theological thoughts on life and events in life. Some will come packaged as sermons- some simply as reflections.
PK IN SWEDEN
Sunday, April 21, 2019
Saturday, April 20, 2019
TETELESTAI- AND HIS OTHER LAST WORDS
It was the Persians who came up with the idea of crucifying others, but it was the Romans who mastered this instrument of death. It was a disgusting form of execution and it was designed to be as public, as shameful, and as painful, as possible. Men were flogged to the edge of death, before they were marched to their own crucifixion site, carrying their own 100 pound crossbar. Then, they were either nailed or tied to their cross and lifted up to hang there until they suffocated to death (unless the soldiers on duty ran them through or broke their legs to accelerate their dying). This is the way the Romans executed people and Jesus was no exception. On the day we call "Good Friday," on a hill called "Calvary" or "Golgotha," an innocent man was nailed to his cross and lifted up to die. As a man, he suffered the pain that all of the others suffered, but as the Son of God, he also suffered the burden of our sins- yours and mine. He died a tortured death... for us, as he was struggled to breathe beneath the sign that read, "Iesus Nazarenus, Rex Iudaerum" (King of the Jews- INRI). He died with grace and with surrendered faith on his lips and according to the gospels, he said these things:
1) Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.
These are among the greatest words ever said! Who among us has ever heard of a wrongly condemned and suffering man uttering, Father, forgive them... for being the... insecure, frightened, and self-centered creatures they are? Good news indeed... but who, exactly, is "them"? When he prayed, "Forgive them," was he talking about the Romans who were crucifying him, the authorities who condemned him, the disciples who had abandoned him, or everyone of us who stood beneath the cross and cried out, "Crucify him. Crucify him"?
2) Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise.
What a wonderful thing this is to say to a man... who's hanging on the cross next to you! All the convicted thief said was "remember me." He didn't cite a catechism. He didn't mention his denomination. He simply pleaded in a beautiful prayer, "remember me," and Jesus gave him a ticket to heaven! Wow! This is too much grace for who those who harbor deeply rooted beliefs that they need to be "good enough" for God. Truth is- grace is both necessary and sufficient for salvation!
3) Woman, behold your son! Behold your mother!
Death is a "passing" into a new realm, but for those who are left behind, life goes on. For parents who have lost a child, for lovers who've lost a partner, for children who've lost parents... life goes on. It goes on in an emptier way, but it goes on. Jesus knew this, and he responded to his mother's need for care. The first of his last "words" were all other-directed, and that in itself, says a lot about the man. But then, Jesus' mind turned to his Father, and he cried out...
4) Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani (My God, my God, why have you abandoned me)?
Jesus was in excruciating pain and the weight of our sins separated him from his Father. So, he cried, "Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani," knowing that these words come from Psalm 22:1. As he was dying, Jesus identified with a Psalm that expresses both pain and hope. In this Psalm, the psalmist is insulted and his feet and hands are pierced. He is suffering greatly, but the psalm goes on to celebrate God's power and proclaim a day when people will praise God with the words, "He has done it!" Jesus expressed his pain to a God whom he trusted. These are not words of doubt!
5) I thirst.
This is the most ordinary, most human, of his last words, lifting up the fullness of his humanity. His lips were parched, his throat had swollen...so much so that when he cried, "Eli, Eli" to his Father, many of those who stood beneath his cross thought that he had said "Elijah" because he could not be understood. Nothing is easy for a dying man. He needed a drink- so he said, "I thirst."
6) Tetelestai (It is finished)
It is done. These were among his last words. At some level, of course, they could refer to his life on earth, which was surely over, but at a deeper and still obvious level, the word "tetelestai" spoke to his mission, which was to save the lost and open the gates of heaven to all who believe in him. As Paul noted, Jesus emptied himself of divinity and came to earth to save sinners. He exchanged glory for a cross, so that we would be saved in his name. We can quit trying to be "good enough" because on Good Friday, in a far away place, his work was completed... and the Nazarene uttered, "Tetelestai."
7) Into Thy hands, O Lord, I commend my spirit.
If his first three sayings had others in mind, his last two were clearly focused on his work and his Father. He died with surrendered trust on his lips, which is fitting because it was surrendered trust that he taught as a way of life. Pray that, in the fulness of time, your faith will be great enough to die with surrendered trust on your lips as well.
They say that you can tell a lot about a man (or a woman)... by the way in which he (or she) dies, and according to Mark, at least one Roman soldier found this to be true... because when he saw how Jesus died, (Mk 15:39), he said, "Surely this man was the Son of God." In my view, everyone's Christian journey begins at the cross! We invite you to bring your sins to the cross at this time. Leave them there as you leave the church. Don't pick them back up and carry them around... because it is done. Tetelestai. Amen!
1) Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.
These are among the greatest words ever said! Who among us has ever heard of a wrongly condemned and suffering man uttering, Father, forgive them... for being the... insecure, frightened, and self-centered creatures they are? Good news indeed... but who, exactly, is "them"? When he prayed, "Forgive them," was he talking about the Romans who were crucifying him, the authorities who condemned him, the disciples who had abandoned him, or everyone of us who stood beneath the cross and cried out, "Crucify him. Crucify him"?
2) Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise.
What a wonderful thing this is to say to a man... who's hanging on the cross next to you! All the convicted thief said was "remember me." He didn't cite a catechism. He didn't mention his denomination. He simply pleaded in a beautiful prayer, "remember me," and Jesus gave him a ticket to heaven! Wow! This is too much grace for who those who harbor deeply rooted beliefs that they need to be "good enough" for God. Truth is- grace is both necessary and sufficient for salvation!
3) Woman, behold your son! Behold your mother!
Death is a "passing" into a new realm, but for those who are left behind, life goes on. For parents who have lost a child, for lovers who've lost a partner, for children who've lost parents... life goes on. It goes on in an emptier way, but it goes on. Jesus knew this, and he responded to his mother's need for care. The first of his last "words" were all other-directed, and that in itself, says a lot about the man. But then, Jesus' mind turned to his Father, and he cried out...
4) Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani (My God, my God, why have you abandoned me)?
Jesus was in excruciating pain and the weight of our sins separated him from his Father. So, he cried, "Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani," knowing that these words come from Psalm 22:1. As he was dying, Jesus identified with a Psalm that expresses both pain and hope. In this Psalm, the psalmist is insulted and his feet and hands are pierced. He is suffering greatly, but the psalm goes on to celebrate God's power and proclaim a day when people will praise God with the words, "He has done it!" Jesus expressed his pain to a God whom he trusted. These are not words of doubt!
5) I thirst.
This is the most ordinary, most human, of his last words, lifting up the fullness of his humanity. His lips were parched, his throat had swollen...so much so that when he cried, "Eli, Eli" to his Father, many of those who stood beneath his cross thought that he had said "Elijah" because he could not be understood. Nothing is easy for a dying man. He needed a drink- so he said, "I thirst."
6) Tetelestai (It is finished)
It is done. These were among his last words. At some level, of course, they could refer to his life on earth, which was surely over, but at a deeper and still obvious level, the word "tetelestai" spoke to his mission, which was to save the lost and open the gates of heaven to all who believe in him. As Paul noted, Jesus emptied himself of divinity and came to earth to save sinners. He exchanged glory for a cross, so that we would be saved in his name. We can quit trying to be "good enough" because on Good Friday, in a far away place, his work was completed... and the Nazarene uttered, "Tetelestai."
7) Into Thy hands, O Lord, I commend my spirit.
If his first three sayings had others in mind, his last two were clearly focused on his work and his Father. He died with surrendered trust on his lips, which is fitting because it was surrendered trust that he taught as a way of life. Pray that, in the fulness of time, your faith will be great enough to die with surrendered trust on your lips as well.
They say that you can tell a lot about a man (or a woman)... by the way in which he (or she) dies, and according to Mark, at least one Roman soldier found this to be true... because when he saw how Jesus died, (Mk 15:39), he said, "Surely this man was the Son of God." In my view, everyone's Christian journey begins at the cross! We invite you to bring your sins to the cross at this time. Leave them there as you leave the church. Don't pick them back up and carry them around... because it is done. Tetelestai. Amen!
Tuesday, April 9, 2019
IT WOULD'VE MADE A PRESBYTERIAN BLUSH
Many women touched Jesus' life and ministry as he made his way to Calvary's Hill. There was the Syrophoenician woman that her daughter deserved some of the "crumbs of grace" that fall from God's table. There was the Samaritan woman who engaged in a rather deep conversation with Jesus when they met at Jacob's Well. There were more of course- the widow of Nain, Suzanna, Johanna, and Martha- but it seems that the most influential women in Jesus' world... were all named "Mary." There was Mother Mary, Mary from Mandala, and Mary from Bethany, who is featured in the passage before us today. (John 12:1-8)
We've been introduced to Mary earlier, you may recall, when she insisted in sitting at Jesus' feet with the men, as her sister, Martha, did all of the work in their kitchen. We also encountered Mary when Jesus resurrected her brother, Lazarus. You may recall this story as well. After he had heard that Lazarus was dying, Jesus delayed for a couple of days and then traveled to Bethany, as Mary and Martha had requested of him. When he arrived, Lazarus was dead and his sisters were devastated. They both felt free to tell Jesus that their brother would've lived if Jesus had been there and then, even knowing that he would resurrect Lazarus, Jesus broke down a sobbed. When he looked into the emptiness and the sadness that had engulfed his two friends, it broke his heart. But he did raise Lazarus from the grave and as we enter the story now, we see that Jesus and some of his followers are visiting his friends one last time. They are on the way to Jerusalem. Tomorrow will be Palm/Passion Sunday and they have stopped to share a meal at Lazarus' house.
Martha is preparing and serving the meal while Jesus and the other men (including the recently resurrected Lazarus and Judas) recline at the table. It is a settled and ordered fellowship moment, but now Mary kneels at Jesus' feet. It was something that most women would not have done, but it paled in comparison to what Mary did next. In something that was becoming a spectacle, Mary undid her hair and let it fall. She let her hair down, which was something that women in her day only did in front of their husbands. She let her hair down, as if she didn't care or didn't know the rules... and then, she emptied a $20,000 bottle of perfume on Jesus' feet. The aroma filled the house as the mens' eyes got wider and wider. Foot washing is a central theme in the Gospel of John, but this was an expensive ointment- this was an anointing- this was at the hands of a woman in a room filled with men. Everyone in the house knew that a "bad moon was rising" for Jesus. They knew that returning to Jerusalem was not safe and they knew that Jesus' days were numbered. But Mary, this Mary, seemed to be under the spell of a love that she couldn't control. Her love for her friend and rabbi, for this man who had resurrected her brother and changed her life, demanded that she pour her heart out and give him everything she could. A woman, in front of a man, with her hair hanging down, rubbing his feet with perfume- it was sensual and indecent. It was disorderly and unacceptable, but they hadn't seen anything yet... because Mary then began to wipe Jesus' feet with her own hair.
O Lord, I'm embarrassed. Embarrassed for Jesus (who has accepted Mary's outpouring of love without minimizing or rejecting it), embarrassed for Mary (who should've kept herself under control), and embarrassed for myself. Judas, for motives that John disparages, raises a point that any good accountant would raise: the money spent on the perfume could have been given to the poor. It could have been saved for a rainy day, and it could have. But Jesus said "leave her alone!" Let love have its way with her. There will always be poor people to serve. You will always have budgets to plan and meetings to hold. But when I am standing before you- when you see me in your sanctuary or in your food pantry- the only appropriate response is to give me your best. There's more than enough time to play church, but when you see me naked, clothe me; and when I'm hungry, feed me. When I am lonely, take the time to visit me; when I have fallen, pick me up; and when you see the wounds in my hands and side, you must, like Thomas, fall to your knees and cry out, "My Lord and my God!"
On this final Lenten Sunday, we are challenged with these questions: 1) who really was the better steward of God's blessing- Mary or Judas; 2) Is extravagance the same thing as excess; 3) Is love real if it can't be touched, seen, heard, tasted, or smelled? If love doesn't find a real expression, is it real? Can real love even be controlled? 4) If Jesus visited us tomorrow, what would we do? If he was on the way to the cross, would we anoint him or simply make small talk about the weather or current events? 5) If we were at the foot of his cross, would we say something like, "Save yourself," or would we cry out, "Surely, this man is the Son of God!" Amen.
We've been introduced to Mary earlier, you may recall, when she insisted in sitting at Jesus' feet with the men, as her sister, Martha, did all of the work in their kitchen. We also encountered Mary when Jesus resurrected her brother, Lazarus. You may recall this story as well. After he had heard that Lazarus was dying, Jesus delayed for a couple of days and then traveled to Bethany, as Mary and Martha had requested of him. When he arrived, Lazarus was dead and his sisters were devastated. They both felt free to tell Jesus that their brother would've lived if Jesus had been there and then, even knowing that he would resurrect Lazarus, Jesus broke down a sobbed. When he looked into the emptiness and the sadness that had engulfed his two friends, it broke his heart. But he did raise Lazarus from the grave and as we enter the story now, we see that Jesus and some of his followers are visiting his friends one last time. They are on the way to Jerusalem. Tomorrow will be Palm/Passion Sunday and they have stopped to share a meal at Lazarus' house.
Martha is preparing and serving the meal while Jesus and the other men (including the recently resurrected Lazarus and Judas) recline at the table. It is a settled and ordered fellowship moment, but now Mary kneels at Jesus' feet. It was something that most women would not have done, but it paled in comparison to what Mary did next. In something that was becoming a spectacle, Mary undid her hair and let it fall. She let her hair down, which was something that women in her day only did in front of their husbands. She let her hair down, as if she didn't care or didn't know the rules... and then, she emptied a $20,000 bottle of perfume on Jesus' feet. The aroma filled the house as the mens' eyes got wider and wider. Foot washing is a central theme in the Gospel of John, but this was an expensive ointment- this was an anointing- this was at the hands of a woman in a room filled with men. Everyone in the house knew that a "bad moon was rising" for Jesus. They knew that returning to Jerusalem was not safe and they knew that Jesus' days were numbered. But Mary, this Mary, seemed to be under the spell of a love that she couldn't control. Her love for her friend and rabbi, for this man who had resurrected her brother and changed her life, demanded that she pour her heart out and give him everything she could. A woman, in front of a man, with her hair hanging down, rubbing his feet with perfume- it was sensual and indecent. It was disorderly and unacceptable, but they hadn't seen anything yet... because Mary then began to wipe Jesus' feet with her own hair.
O Lord, I'm embarrassed. Embarrassed for Jesus (who has accepted Mary's outpouring of love without minimizing or rejecting it), embarrassed for Mary (who should've kept herself under control), and embarrassed for myself. Judas, for motives that John disparages, raises a point that any good accountant would raise: the money spent on the perfume could have been given to the poor. It could have been saved for a rainy day, and it could have. But Jesus said "leave her alone!" Let love have its way with her. There will always be poor people to serve. You will always have budgets to plan and meetings to hold. But when I am standing before you- when you see me in your sanctuary or in your food pantry- the only appropriate response is to give me your best. There's more than enough time to play church, but when you see me naked, clothe me; and when I'm hungry, feed me. When I am lonely, take the time to visit me; when I have fallen, pick me up; and when you see the wounds in my hands and side, you must, like Thomas, fall to your knees and cry out, "My Lord and my God!"
On this final Lenten Sunday, we are challenged with these questions: 1) who really was the better steward of God's blessing- Mary or Judas; 2) Is extravagance the same thing as excess; 3) Is love real if it can't be touched, seen, heard, tasted, or smelled? If love doesn't find a real expression, is it real? Can real love even be controlled? 4) If Jesus visited us tomorrow, what would we do? If he was on the way to the cross, would we anoint him or simply make small talk about the weather or current events? 5) If we were at the foot of his cross, would we say something like, "Save yourself," or would we cry out, "Surely, this man is the Son of God!" Amen.
Monday, April 1, 2019
RADICAL GRACE IS GLORIOUSLY UNFAIR
“Grace. Radical grace. Free grace. Unconditional grace. It's an awkward thing. For ourselves, it's seems too-good-to-be-true because we know our actions, thoughts, and secrets... and when it comes to others, it seems unfair. Consider the parable about the master who paid workers who showed up at 5pm the same amount as he paid those who started work at 6am. (Matt. 20) I know I supposed to rejoice with the 5 o'clock crowd because I'm one of them, but I can't help but feel bad for those who worked all day for the same reward. Grace is a mysterious thing. When we receive it, it can be a bit embarrassing and when others receive it, it can make us angry and resentful if our spirits aren't settled.
Philip Yancey tells of a young girl who ran away from her home in Traverse City because her parents were too strict. She ran to Detroit and fell into the hands of a man whom she would later call “Boss.” She did “tricks” for him and got by for a year or so, but then, she ended up on the streets, where her spirit broke and instead of feeling grown and independent, she felt little and vulnerable, and wanted to go home. So she bought a bus ticket and headed home. It was a 7-hour trip and and she rehearsed her apology many times. She also wondered if anyone would be at the station to meet her because she had been gone for some time. Finally, the bus pulled into town and she walked into the depot, not knowing what she would find… when she saw a large banner saying “Welcome Home,” and at least 40 members of her family applauding, with silly party hats on their hats. When her dad stepped forward to greet her, she started to tell him how sorry she was, but he told her that they didn’t have time for that. “You’ll be late for your party,” he said, “We have a banquet ready at home!”
Philip Yancey tells of a young girl who ran away from her home in Traverse City because her parents were too strict. She ran to Detroit and fell into the hands of a man whom she would later call “Boss.” She did “tricks” for him and got by for a year or so, but then, she ended up on the streets, where her spirit broke and instead of feeling grown and independent, she felt little and vulnerable, and wanted to go home. So she bought a bus ticket and headed home. It was a 7-hour trip and and she rehearsed her apology many times. She also wondered if anyone would be at the station to meet her because she had been gone for some time. Finally, the bus pulled into town and she walked into the depot, not knowing what she would find… when she saw a large banner saying “Welcome Home,” and at least 40 members of her family applauding, with silly party hats on their hats. When her dad stepped forward to greet her, she started to tell him how sorry she was, but he told her that they didn’t have time for that. “You’ll be late for your party,” he said, “We have a banquet ready at home!”
I read of
a woman who cared for her father as he died. She had always cared for him and
she did a good job of it. Indeed, she did a good job at everything and, when her father asked her to handle his funeral arrangements, she wasn't surprised. She was
eager to do that for him and she was proud when he asked her to sing a special
song. After her father died, she arranged
everything and practiced her song again and again. But on the day of the funeral, her ne’er-do- well brother walked in, shabbily dressed,
poorly groomed, and with his latest girlfriend in tow. He had never been much
of a son or a brother… but there he stood, and people were telling
him how great it was to see him and how happy his dad would be. It made her sick and then it occurred to her: the song her father wanted sung
was about forgiveness. It was about grace. It was for her brother… and she
resolved right then, that she would not sing the song!
Our
last story is the well-known story that we call
the “prodigal son.” As the story goes, a father had two sons and a lot of land. But one day, his youngest son asked him to
give him the money he would receive if his father was dead. He wanted to see the world, and when his father gave him his
inheritance early, he split for the city lights. In time he ended up feeding pigs, and to make matters worse, he was so hungry that he desired the
food he was feeding to the pigs. Finally, he “came to his
senses,” and decided to go home. Well, as we
know, his father saw him coming up the road and when he saw him, he ran down the dusty road to meet his son and reinstated him into the
family. Then he told his servants to prepare a banquet. This they did and there
was a lot of laughter coming from house… when the dedicated older brother made
his way from from the field. “What’s going on?” he asked. “Your brother is back
and your father is throwing a shindig,” someone said. When he heard this, the
older brother became furious and refused to go into the house. He refused to
join the party and his father came out to plead with him. “Look,” his eldest
son said, “I’ve slaved for you for years. I’ve never been disobedient and
you never even hosted a get-together for me and my friends. Now, this
irresponsible youngest son of yours stumbles home and you throw a party.” “My
son,” the father replied. “Everything I have is
yours, but we had to celebrate because your brother was lost and has been
found. He was dead and is alive again!”
Amazing Grace can seem terribly unfair, unearned… and of course, it is. It must be because it's God’s nature to save. It is God’s nature to forgive. But the question for us today is this: what is our
nature? Even though she put her parents and herself through unmentioned pain, would you
have attended the banquet for the run-away teen? Would you have sung the song of grace that your father wanted you to sing? Would you have attended the party for your
younger brother? I don't know. I would like to think that I would've sung the song, but I'm not sure I would've embraced my younger brother. How about you?
Finally, from “The Ragamuffin Gospel,” a statement that really challenges me. “I believe," the author writes, "that among the countless number of people standing in front of the throne… I shall see the prostitute from the Kit-Kat Ranch in Carson City, who tearfully told me that she could find no other employment to support her two-year-old son. I shall see the woman who had an abortion and is haunted by guilt and remorse but did the best she could, faced with grueling alternatives; the businessman besieged with debt who sold his integrity in a series of desperate transactions; the insecure clergyman addicted to being liked…the sexually abused teen who, as he falls asleep each night, whispers the name of the unknown God he learned about in Sunday school. There 'we' are - the multitude who so wanted to be faithful, who at times got soiled by life, and bested by trials, wearing the bloodied garments of life's tribulations, but through it all clung to faith. My friends," Manning concludes, "if this is not good news to you, you have never understood the gospel of grace.”
Finally, from “The Ragamuffin Gospel,” a statement that really challenges me. “I believe," the author writes, "that among the countless number of people standing in front of the throne… I shall see the prostitute from the Kit-Kat Ranch in Carson City, who tearfully told me that she could find no other employment to support her two-year-old son. I shall see the woman who had an abortion and is haunted by guilt and remorse but did the best she could, faced with grueling alternatives; the businessman besieged with debt who sold his integrity in a series of desperate transactions; the insecure clergyman addicted to being liked…the sexually abused teen who, as he falls asleep each night, whispers the name of the unknown God he learned about in Sunday school. There 'we' are - the multitude who so wanted to be faithful, who at times got soiled by life, and bested by trials, wearing the bloodied garments of life's tribulations, but through it all clung to faith. My friends," Manning concludes, "if this is not good news to you, you have never understood the gospel of grace.”
Sunday, March 17, 2019
WHO IS DEPLORABLE TO YOU?
Most of us like to hang out with people who are a lot like us. We know that differences exist in the world, but we don't want them to clutter our own lives. We're a tribal people. We're northsiders or southsiders, democrats or republicans, Cub fans or Cardinal fans. When we enter a room, we gravitate to people who look like they may be one of us. We watch TV programs, even networks, that affirm what we think because we feel "at home" with them. We attend churches where the people are likely to worship God like we do, and we make sure to sit on the "right" side of the stadium when we go to a watch a game.
The North going Zax and the South going Zax don't talk much because they don't think they have much in common. There's no doubt about that, but the issue with tribalism is deeper than socializing and rooting for our favorite team...because the circles we draw isolate us and make others... the targets of our fears. The circles that keep others out tend to isolate us, and in a surprisingly short period of time, they also "demonize" others. Thus, people who are different from us...become people who are dull-witted, mean-spirited, even evil. And so it was between the Jews and the Samaritans in Jesus' time. They despised each other. The Jews considered Samaritans to be deplorable at the time and they would go out of their way to avoid them. But the Bible says (John 4) that Jesus and his disciples journeyed through Samaria en route to Galilee one day, and that they stopped at the site of Jacob's well. According to John, while his disciples went into town to buy food, Jesus waited by the well... and a Samaritan woman came alone to draw water at noon. "Can I have a drink?" Jesus asked, and his question took the woman aback. "How can you, a Jewish man, ask me, a Samaritan woman, for a drink?" she replied. It was a good question because Jesus had violated two important social boundaries. In the first place, men didn't talk to women whom they didn't know, and in the second place, Jews didn't talk to Samaritans. The woman was caught off guard, but Jesus noted that she would've asked him for living water, if she knew who he was.
Well, the Jewish rabbi and an unnamed Samaritan woman talked on. They talked about religious differences and other things, but their dialogue ended with the woman saying, (v. 25) "I know that God's Messiah will make all things clear when he comes"... and Jesus said, "Ego eimi, I am!" I am the Messiah, the One who can meet your needs... for water, self-respect, acceptance, forgiveness, and love. I am, he said, in the first of his "I am" statements in the Gospel of John. It is to this woman that Jesus reached out. She is the one to whom he offered living water. She is the one he told to tell others what she had seen and heard. Which she did. She ran and told the others all about Jesus, and invited them to come with her and see for themselves.
It's a great story that reveals Jesus as a "boundary-breaker," and it calls us to consider the circles that we draw to keep some people in and others out. In this Lenten season, we are invited to ask and answer these questions: 1) What people do we avoid? 2) What kinds of people are deplorable to you? 3) What sort of people do you walk out of your way... not to see? 4) Who are the Samaritans in your world? 5) Are there people who make us "anxious, suspicious, even angry" simply because they are part of a group... that falls outside of our circle of love? Black people? Jewish people? Muslim people? Poor people? Tattooed people? Loud people? Gay people? Abusive people?.... (and I confess that I have trouble with tattooed people and even more trouble with abusive people).
How wide is your circle of love? Christ lived in a world that was filled with boundaries. Jesus knew that. Better than we do. He knew that he wasn't supposed to welcome children, let Mary sit with his disciples, eat with sinners, heal a Centurian's daughter, touch lepers, or converse with those who were leading unsavory lives. He knew all of these rules and ignored them... because love demanded it! His circle of love included everyone who was willing to be included. It still does! God's love is like that. It's inclusive and welcoming. So, let's be careful with the circles we draw. May they include family, church, friends, and people who root for the same teams as we do, but may they also include people who are troubled, difficult, unmotivated, manipulative, dishonest, compromised, and different, in all the ways we think people are different. May our circles of grace be so large that they include anyone who wants to be in, and anyone at all... even Samaritan women should we meet one at the well. Amen!
The North going Zax and the South going Zax don't talk much because they don't think they have much in common. There's no doubt about that, but the issue with tribalism is deeper than socializing and rooting for our favorite team...because the circles we draw isolate us and make others... the targets of our fears. The circles that keep others out tend to isolate us, and in a surprisingly short period of time, they also "demonize" others. Thus, people who are different from us...become people who are dull-witted, mean-spirited, even evil. And so it was between the Jews and the Samaritans in Jesus' time. They despised each other. The Jews considered Samaritans to be deplorable at the time and they would go out of their way to avoid them. But the Bible says (John 4) that Jesus and his disciples journeyed through Samaria en route to Galilee one day, and that they stopped at the site of Jacob's well. According to John, while his disciples went into town to buy food, Jesus waited by the well... and a Samaritan woman came alone to draw water at noon. "Can I have a drink?" Jesus asked, and his question took the woman aback. "How can you, a Jewish man, ask me, a Samaritan woman, for a drink?" she replied. It was a good question because Jesus had violated two important social boundaries. In the first place, men didn't talk to women whom they didn't know, and in the second place, Jews didn't talk to Samaritans. The woman was caught off guard, but Jesus noted that she would've asked him for living water, if she knew who he was.
Well, the Jewish rabbi and an unnamed Samaritan woman talked on. They talked about religious differences and other things, but their dialogue ended with the woman saying, (v. 25) "I know that God's Messiah will make all things clear when he comes"... and Jesus said, "Ego eimi, I am!" I am the Messiah, the One who can meet your needs... for water, self-respect, acceptance, forgiveness, and love. I am, he said, in the first of his "I am" statements in the Gospel of John. It is to this woman that Jesus reached out. She is the one to whom he offered living water. She is the one he told to tell others what she had seen and heard. Which she did. She ran and told the others all about Jesus, and invited them to come with her and see for themselves.
It's a great story that reveals Jesus as a "boundary-breaker," and it calls us to consider the circles that we draw to keep some people in and others out. In this Lenten season, we are invited to ask and answer these questions: 1) What people do we avoid? 2) What kinds of people are deplorable to you? 3) What sort of people do you walk out of your way... not to see? 4) Who are the Samaritans in your world? 5) Are there people who make us "anxious, suspicious, even angry" simply because they are part of a group... that falls outside of our circle of love? Black people? Jewish people? Muslim people? Poor people? Tattooed people? Loud people? Gay people? Abusive people?.... (and I confess that I have trouble with tattooed people and even more trouble with abusive people).
How wide is your circle of love? Christ lived in a world that was filled with boundaries. Jesus knew that. Better than we do. He knew that he wasn't supposed to welcome children, let Mary sit with his disciples, eat with sinners, heal a Centurian's daughter, touch lepers, or converse with those who were leading unsavory lives. He knew all of these rules and ignored them... because love demanded it! His circle of love included everyone who was willing to be included. It still does! God's love is like that. It's inclusive and welcoming. So, let's be careful with the circles we draw. May they include family, church, friends, and people who root for the same teams as we do, but may they also include people who are troubled, difficult, unmotivated, manipulative, dishonest, compromised, and different, in all the ways we think people are different. May our circles of grace be so large that they include anyone who wants to be in, and anyone at all... even Samaritan women should we meet one at the well. Amen!
Thursday, March 7, 2019
IF GOD CAN SAVE ME... GOD WILL RESCUE YOU!
People are lost everywhere you look. They are desperate for love and opportunity, and some of them will go to any length to get attention. They confuse acquisitions with fulfillment and good times with real joy. People hurt in a hundred different ways, and they seek a hundred different remedies, just as I did for decades. In the end, at least for me, God was the answer, and I am writing this to encourage you to choose God yourself.
People are hurting in so many ways. Many of them are victims of circumstance. The man is 57 and he's been fired. "Downsized" they say, but in his gut, he feels that he's been fired. The woman is 43 and she's knee-deep in a bad marriage. She hates to go home at night and often wonders why she didn't listen to her gut (and her dad) in the first place. The boy's 17 and he has very few friends. He gets bullied and he wonders if it's worth it. He's sure that no one loves him, and he suspects that he is unlovable. The girl is about the same age, and she always feels ugly. The businessman wear a thousand dollar suit to hide his cheap values and to conceal his emptiness. And then there's an old man. He's been treading water ever since he lost the love of his life. Oh, she's still breathing, but she hasn't known him in years and it breaks his heart! There are many other people who are enslaved by their own secrets- domestic violence, sexual abuse, and perhaps, grave sins that they committed in the past. The brokenhearted, the "hopelost"- they are legion- and we cry for them. They are not at fault, but they still need a healer.
Others are responsible, at least in part, for being lost. They've fallen in love with one of the lesser gods who called their name. They've chased after the whores of money, power, pleasure. They are running with all their might- on a treadmill to nowhere- and while they think they're climbing the ladder of success, they are actually going in circles. They are in love with things that can neither think nor feel, and we shake our heads when we think of them. Still others, of course, have fallen in the hands of a demon named addiction. They've lost their souls and they no longer see things as they really are. If they're lucky, the will hit bottom, and if they're really lucky, the impact will shatter their illusions and rearrange their value systems entirely. These people played a part in their own sicknesses, but they are also "hopelost," and they need a healer.
In Biblical terms, people are "lost." They are alienated from their Creator, their neighbors, and their own best selves. They live with an emptiness that no amount of money can fill. They may have large corner lots and big corner offices. They may have a 1000 Facebook friends and several club memberships, but they fill incomplete because God is not at the center of their lives. I know this because I've been there, and I've learned that God is the ONLY enduring source of unconditional love. I've also learned that God is the ONLY source of complete and utter forgiveness. Even as Adam was created to be in relationship with God, Augustine noted that our hearts are restless until they rest in God.
He came to this conclusion after he had tried to fill his life in many other ways, and I've had the same experience. After trying so hard to be loved for so long, knowing that I am known and loved anyway still blows my mind, and after carrying my sins for so many years, knowing that God has forgiven them gives me incredible joy. If you put God first in your life, you will still face challenges. You will still hear the tempting voices of the world, and you may even find yourself in counseling for the addictions, the secrets, and the pain that I mentioned earlier. But I can promise that you will never feel unloved and that your days of trying to be "good enough" will be over. What is more- if God is at the center of your life, you will find purpose and direction.
For me- who had never believed that I was really worthy, and who sometimes cried out, "God, please help me,"- receiving God's grace was the key that unlocked the cage that I was living in. I hit bottom in 1976, and I hit with such a "thud" that it knocked some sense into me. For once, I listen when someone talked to me about God. I listened, I believed, and I accepted the new life that God offered to me. My emptiness was gone, and I saw things clearly for the first time in my life. If I found new life in Christ, anyone can... including you.
People are hurting in so many ways. Many of them are victims of circumstance. The man is 57 and he's been fired. "Downsized" they say, but in his gut, he feels that he's been fired. The woman is 43 and she's knee-deep in a bad marriage. She hates to go home at night and often wonders why she didn't listen to her gut (and her dad) in the first place. The boy's 17 and he has very few friends. He gets bullied and he wonders if it's worth it. He's sure that no one loves him, and he suspects that he is unlovable. The girl is about the same age, and she always feels ugly. The businessman wear a thousand dollar suit to hide his cheap values and to conceal his emptiness. And then there's an old man. He's been treading water ever since he lost the love of his life. Oh, she's still breathing, but she hasn't known him in years and it breaks his heart! There are many other people who are enslaved by their own secrets- domestic violence, sexual abuse, and perhaps, grave sins that they committed in the past. The brokenhearted, the "hopelost"- they are legion- and we cry for them. They are not at fault, but they still need a healer.
Others are responsible, at least in part, for being lost. They've fallen in love with one of the lesser gods who called their name. They've chased after the whores of money, power, pleasure. They are running with all their might- on a treadmill to nowhere- and while they think they're climbing the ladder of success, they are actually going in circles. They are in love with things that can neither think nor feel, and we shake our heads when we think of them. Still others, of course, have fallen in the hands of a demon named addiction. They've lost their souls and they no longer see things as they really are. If they're lucky, the will hit bottom, and if they're really lucky, the impact will shatter their illusions and rearrange their value systems entirely. These people played a part in their own sicknesses, but they are also "hopelost," and they need a healer.
In Biblical terms, people are "lost." They are alienated from their Creator, their neighbors, and their own best selves. They live with an emptiness that no amount of money can fill. They may have large corner lots and big corner offices. They may have a 1000 Facebook friends and several club memberships, but they fill incomplete because God is not at the center of their lives. I know this because I've been there, and I've learned that God is the ONLY enduring source of unconditional love. I've also learned that God is the ONLY source of complete and utter forgiveness. Even as Adam was created to be in relationship with God, Augustine noted that our hearts are restless until they rest in God.
He came to this conclusion after he had tried to fill his life in many other ways, and I've had the same experience. After trying so hard to be loved for so long, knowing that I am known and loved anyway still blows my mind, and after carrying my sins for so many years, knowing that God has forgiven them gives me incredible joy. If you put God first in your life, you will still face challenges. You will still hear the tempting voices of the world, and you may even find yourself in counseling for the addictions, the secrets, and the pain that I mentioned earlier. But I can promise that you will never feel unloved and that your days of trying to be "good enough" will be over. What is more- if God is at the center of your life, you will find purpose and direction.
For me- who had never believed that I was really worthy, and who sometimes cried out, "God, please help me,"- receiving God's grace was the key that unlocked the cage that I was living in. I hit bottom in 1976, and I hit with such a "thud" that it knocked some sense into me. For once, I listen when someone talked to me about God. I listened, I believed, and I accepted the new life that God offered to me. My emptiness was gone, and I saw things clearly for the first time in my life. If I found new life in Christ, anyone can... including you.
Wednesday, March 6, 2019
A BRIEF, HOPEFUL, ASH WEDNESDAY MESSAGE
Let me begin with words that God expressed through a man who lived several hundred years before Christ was born. They can be found in Isaiah 58, and they seem to be addressed to a people who are trying to please God on their own terms! They ask me for decisions, God said (Isa. 58:2-3) and they wonder why they don't hear from me. "Why have we fasted,' they ask, 'and you haven't (even) noticed?" Yet, even when they fast, they do as they please. They continue to live as if it's all about them. They walk around with ashes on their heads, but they're filled with a sense of self-righteousness and entitlement. They attend church, give offerings, and queue up for ashes... even as they walk by beggars on the street and mistreat their workers. They fast... they swear off chocolate, they quit stopping at the bar for awhile, but there is no lasting change. Their commitment is only superficial. It never touches their souls, and when their time of fasting is done, they pick up their grievances and prejudices, and restart their fights. For them, fasting is a truce rather than a surrender and their voices will not be heard on high unless they live for God.
And the same is true for us. Lent is not a time-out, but a way of life that honors and serves God. Ash Wednesday is more than a brief service that recognizes our journey from dust-to-dust. It's a moment in which we can repent, reconsider, and reclaim... the image of God within us. Let the cross of ashes that will mark us when we leave this service be a sign that we've resolved to be "fully human" in Christ. Let it be a statement that, rather than being "merely human" as we stumble around, we will (with God's help) live as Christ's disciples and go in the way that He leads us. Listen now, as Isaiah (58:9b,ff) goes on: "If you do away with the yoke of oppression, with the pointing finger and malicious talk, if you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry... and satisfy the needs of the oppressed, then your light will shine in the darkness..." If you loose the bonds of injustice, if you break every yoke, if you share your food with the hungry, if you provide shelter for the poor, if you clothe the naked when you see them, and if you take care of your own "flesh and blood," you will find your joy in the Lord and He will lift you to great heights! Amen.
I know many people who give up things for Lent, and giving up things can be a helpful spiritual discipline. I read that 24% of Americans observe Lent and that most of them give up a favorite food or drink (pray that I'm never asked to give up coffee), while others give up a bad habit or a favorite activity (either of which could be a euphemism for sin). Now, even though I link my blogs as tweets, I'm not much of a twitter (FB is as wild as I get), but I did see that among tweeters, the things that they gave up for Lent, included: social networking, alcohol, meat, (when I get to yours shout right out) chocolate, coffee, fast food, men, marijuana, smoking, swearing, worrying, shopping, gossiping, and sushi. You may be attracted to one or more of these "sacrifices" yourself, but I prefer to see Lent as an invitation to give up self and pick up God!
For me, Lent is more about deciding and committing and surrendering.., than it is about giving up something, especially if that something is given up on a temporary basis. Isaiah was so prophetic: if we free people from yokes that oppress them (sin, guilt, fear, addiction, abuse); if we quit judging others and degrading them in the way we talk about them; if we give all that we can- time, talent, and treasure- to improve the lives of those who are shut-in, shut-down, and shut-up; if we claim God's grace and share it freely; if we forgive because we know that we've been forgiven; if, in a word, we live as God's people, we will find joy and purpose as Christians! This is the promise of Lent. Let us covenant to fast... by living and loving as God's people and let our journey begin with crosses of ashes that tell the world that we are His! Amen!
And the same is true for us. Lent is not a time-out, but a way of life that honors and serves God. Ash Wednesday is more than a brief service that recognizes our journey from dust-to-dust. It's a moment in which we can repent, reconsider, and reclaim... the image of God within us. Let the cross of ashes that will mark us when we leave this service be a sign that we've resolved to be "fully human" in Christ. Let it be a statement that, rather than being "merely human" as we stumble around, we will (with God's help) live as Christ's disciples and go in the way that He leads us. Listen now, as Isaiah (58:9b,ff) goes on: "If you do away with the yoke of oppression, with the pointing finger and malicious talk, if you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry... and satisfy the needs of the oppressed, then your light will shine in the darkness..." If you loose the bonds of injustice, if you break every yoke, if you share your food with the hungry, if you provide shelter for the poor, if you clothe the naked when you see them, and if you take care of your own "flesh and blood," you will find your joy in the Lord and He will lift you to great heights! Amen.
I know many people who give up things for Lent, and giving up things can be a helpful spiritual discipline. I read that 24% of Americans observe Lent and that most of them give up a favorite food or drink (pray that I'm never asked to give up coffee), while others give up a bad habit or a favorite activity (either of which could be a euphemism for sin). Now, even though I link my blogs as tweets, I'm not much of a twitter (FB is as wild as I get), but I did see that among tweeters, the things that they gave up for Lent, included: social networking, alcohol, meat, (when I get to yours shout right out) chocolate, coffee, fast food, men, marijuana, smoking, swearing, worrying, shopping, gossiping, and sushi. You may be attracted to one or more of these "sacrifices" yourself, but I prefer to see Lent as an invitation to give up self and pick up God!
For me, Lent is more about deciding and committing and surrendering.., than it is about giving up something, especially if that something is given up on a temporary basis. Isaiah was so prophetic: if we free people from yokes that oppress them (sin, guilt, fear, addiction, abuse); if we quit judging others and degrading them in the way we talk about them; if we give all that we can- time, talent, and treasure- to improve the lives of those who are shut-in, shut-down, and shut-up; if we claim God's grace and share it freely; if we forgive because we know that we've been forgiven; if, in a word, we live as God's people, we will find joy and purpose as Christians! This is the promise of Lent. Let us covenant to fast... by living and loving as God's people and let our journey begin with crosses of ashes that tell the world that we are His! Amen!
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